MMC, it's all over for me

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  1. Helven

    Helven Well-Known Member

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    Sadly, after what was amazing news ttc for 5 years getting my BFP, I have had a MMC and yesterday had a D&C. Myself and my husband are devastated and will start ttc again as soon as we can.

    I had no bleeding, just a bad pain on my right side, I went to the Dr's and she sent me to EPU to rule out ectopic. I was convinced that all was ok, but was knocked sideways when she said at first that she could see a sac but no baby, then she said she could see a baby but it was way too small. We were told to come back in a week, so on Wednesday this week we had a second scan and was told that the baby had been absorbed back into the body and there was just the sac. Yesterday I had a D&C and I am at home resting.

    You are all so blessed and I wish you all a happy and healthy pregnancy and hope to be back here on Tri 1 soon xxx
     
  2. purple_pianos

    purple_pianos Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear this - you poor thing. Take care of yourself and hope to see you back here soon. xxx
     
  3. Frankie_Lou

    Frankie_Lou Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself and hopefully we'll see you again soon x
     
  4. Beanie1975

    Beanie1975 Well-Known Member

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    my heart goes out to you. Take it easy and fx you'll be back soon x
     
  5. Sprk

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    So sorry to hear the news. I hope you get your next bfp when you are ready to ttc. Big hugs xxxx
     
  6. mrssmith2011

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    So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you x
     
  7. Nurse 26

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    So sorry to hear this, take care. Xx

    Sent from my GT-I9100P using Tapatalk 2
     
  8. Balthazar1275

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    So sorry to hear this, sending you massive hugs

    Michelle x
     
  9. Helven

    Helven Well-Known Member

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    Thank you ladies, it is just awful. I feel like my world has been tipped upside down x
     
  10. MrsCK

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    So sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you and your husband. xx
     
  11. scn

    scn Well-Known Member

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    So sorry, take care xx
     
  12. Rebecca89

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    I'm so sorry xxx
     
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    I'm so so sorry helven :-( . I'm keeping everything crossed for a super sticky positive x x
     
  14. ellesbells

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    I'm so sorry for you. Terrible news :(
     
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    Aww hun,so sorry. People often seem to be more fertile after a mc so fx for a super sticky bean next time hun. Something obviously wasn't right this time. Xxxx
     
  16. Juice

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    Helven, I'm so sorry! This must be especially awful after trying for so long.

    Some positives to focus on though: You now know that you CAN get pregnant unassisted, and even if it takes a long time, you know it WILL happen again. And also, you're said to be more fertile in the first six months after a miscarriage.

    I wish you all the luck in the world. Take care xxx
     
  17. Sammy jo

    Sammy jo Well-Known Member

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    Absolutely awful news thoughts are with you and your oh now and best of luck for the future xx
     
  18. C0606

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    That's awful news. So sorry. :( xx
     
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    Very sorry to hear this, take care lots of love and hugs xx
     
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    Big hugs can't imagine how you must be feeling fx your time will be soon xxxxxxxx
     

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