Hi all,
I'm new here. Found out I was pregnat two weeks ago. Although it was a massive shock, I am now coming to terms with it and feeling quite excited.
My story goes like this. Me and the father were together last year for a while and the broke up at christmas because he was moving away with work this year (not the other side of the counrty, another country). Well we have been seeing one another ever since. He moved away two days after I found out I was pregnant. I had to break the news to him which was so difficult at it was and still is his dream to do this. I feel terrible that he'll probably now have to cut this short although he was only intending on going for a year.
We went to the docs just before he left, a private one as I couldn't get in with mine in time. They told me it was either an ectopic, miscarriage or early. Well he left worried. Found out the following week I was just to early to see anything on an U/S.
He had been so supportive when something had been wrong but since he's found out it's probably going to be a healthy pregnancy he haas been unsupportive. I know it is probably a shock for him (he wanted me to get rid of it) but I am really struggling with him not being on my side. I can't plan for the future with him not discussing what is going to happen. It just all seems like such a mess and I'm scared of doing this on my own.
Thanks for listening, theres not many people you can vent to this early on.
A x
I'm new here. Found out I was pregnat two weeks ago. Although it was a massive shock, I am now coming to terms with it and feeling quite excited.
My story goes like this. Me and the father were together last year for a while and the broke up at christmas because he was moving away with work this year (not the other side of the counrty, another country). Well we have been seeing one another ever since. He moved away two days after I found out I was pregnant. I had to break the news to him which was so difficult at it was and still is his dream to do this. I feel terrible that he'll probably now have to cut this short although he was only intending on going for a year.
We went to the docs just before he left, a private one as I couldn't get in with mine in time. They told me it was either an ectopic, miscarriage or early. Well he left worried. Found out the following week I was just to early to see anything on an U/S.
He had been so supportive when something had been wrong but since he's found out it's probably going to be a healthy pregnancy he haas been unsupportive. I know it is probably a shock for him (he wanted me to get rid of it) but I am really struggling with him not being on my side. I can't plan for the future with him not discussing what is going to happen. It just all seems like such a mess and I'm scared of doing this on my own.
Thanks for listening, theres not many people you can vent to this early on.
A x