I just want to comment on Danni's fake nursery pics and comments that were made in the chat regarding it and people on the forum. We all come from different walks of life and have different personal, financial backgrounds etc. No one I have ever come across here has been up their own backsides but simply try to offer their view and bearing in mind the number of us that us this site we are not always going to agree with what someone else thinks. Thats life. I'm sorry Danni felt the need to do what she did, in an ideal world we all want the best for our babies but this is real life and whilst some of us may be able to spend a fortune making an impractial nursery like that, some of us will make do with what we have. I'm very lucky my mum and dad struggled when I was younger, my mum would go without in order that me and my dad had decent clothes but she also used to save like mad and because of that I am blessed with having parents who can now afford to help me out and my OH's parents are the same. No doubt we will all like to be able to do the same for our babies one day (no matter how old they are) Danni has had a lot of positive comments made about her helping others and this is what we are all here to do, share the experience not play games on each other or to patronise. Some people post stuff on the forum that I sometimes dont believe or think is OTT but since none of know each others personal situations I dont this we should judge. So I hope we can all continue the journey together girls because in my case its still feels like a long way to go!