Hello,
I don't know if this is the right place for advice, but here it goes.
Recently my girlfriend and I were having sex, and she ended up getting pregnant because of a rediculous situation where she was on top of me while pinning my arms to the bed. She got lost in the moment while I tried to pull out, but the position I was in, she just overpowered me and it resulted in me ejaculating inside of her. Then afterwards she apologized, and said that her actions were only sexual. I then went and bought the plan B pill. She took it but ended up becoming pregnant anyway. The moment we found out that she was pregnant I flipped out because we are both only 20 yrs old and still in college. But she for some reason was happy and thinks that it is a wonderful thing. While I on the other hand am shattered because I probably won't be able to finish school while having to support a kid. Today we have been arguing about this entire situation and have been disagreeing with everything. But the thing I am most afraid of right now is if she was to physical with me because of her poor decision. My girlfriend is about an inch taller than me and outweighs me by about 50 lbs while her body is mostly muscle from working out at the gym and doing cross fit. So she is very strong, while I am only 145 lbs and rather skinny from running track and cross country. So if she was to get physical with me over this situation, I am afraid that she could easily overpower me to get what she wants.
So, What is the best decision I should do right now? How should I deal with this situation without making problems worse?
I don't know if this is the right place for advice, but here it goes.
Recently my girlfriend and I were having sex, and she ended up getting pregnant because of a rediculous situation where she was on top of me while pinning my arms to the bed. She got lost in the moment while I tried to pull out, but the position I was in, she just overpowered me and it resulted in me ejaculating inside of her. Then afterwards she apologized, and said that her actions were only sexual. I then went and bought the plan B pill. She took it but ended up becoming pregnant anyway. The moment we found out that she was pregnant I flipped out because we are both only 20 yrs old and still in college. But she for some reason was happy and thinks that it is a wonderful thing. While I on the other hand am shattered because I probably won't be able to finish school while having to support a kid. Today we have been arguing about this entire situation and have been disagreeing with everything. But the thing I am most afraid of right now is if she was to physical with me because of her poor decision. My girlfriend is about an inch taller than me and outweighs me by about 50 lbs while her body is mostly muscle from working out at the gym and doing cross fit. So she is very strong, while I am only 145 lbs and rather skinny from running track and cross country. So if she was to get physical with me over this situation, I am afraid that she could easily overpower me to get what she wants.
So, What is the best decision I should do right now? How should I deal with this situation without making problems worse?
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