violet13
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Hi ladies,
I've been really struggling lately, me and baby where ebf until 10 weeks as baby was so unhappy on breast and just simply wasn't getting enough so I went to formula after speaking to my dr and he diagnosed me with depression and anxiety because ofL the overwhelming pressure I was under. Now he's been bottle fed for 6 weeks and is content and happy but I really miss bfeeding but can't go back due to meds and also the anxiety the dr advised me not to and now I've been made to feel like I didn't even try my best in doing so like I've failed my child because it was too much and I've become ill as a result. I don't even know how to reply to what's been said without really kicking off tbh I hate that I get made to feel like crap because for his benefit we switched how is that fair?! Also not enough support for bfeeding? Sorry I call b.s on that I and a lot of bfeeding mums got tons of help with it yet a mum across from me who couldn't get baby to latch for anything got left for over 2 hours without a bottle or help when she expressed going to formula how is that okay? I'm really really angry and this isn't a dig at anyone on here but I don't want bfeed my next baby so I won't get any help brilliant. I don't think me going to formula for my baby's sake makes me an evil person but I'm being made to feel that way. Just a bit of a rant really thank you ladies xxx
I've been really struggling lately, me and baby where ebf until 10 weeks as baby was so unhappy on breast and just simply wasn't getting enough so I went to formula after speaking to my dr and he diagnosed me with depression and anxiety because ofL the overwhelming pressure I was under. Now he's been bottle fed for 6 weeks and is content and happy but I really miss bfeeding but can't go back due to meds and also the anxiety the dr advised me not to and now I've been made to feel like I didn't even try my best in doing so like I've failed my child because it was too much and I've become ill as a result. I don't even know how to reply to what's been said without really kicking off tbh I hate that I get made to feel like crap because for his benefit we switched how is that fair?! Also not enough support for bfeeding? Sorry I call b.s on that I and a lot of bfeeding mums got tons of help with it yet a mum across from me who couldn't get baby to latch for anything got left for over 2 hours without a bottle or help when she expressed going to formula how is that okay? I'm really really angry and this isn't a dig at anyone on here but I don't want bfeed my next baby so I won't get any help brilliant. I don't think me going to formula for my baby's sake makes me an evil person but I'm being made to feel that way. Just a bit of a rant really thank you ladies xxx