Hi girls, please excuse me but I need a rant. My lg is 9.5 months old and I still breast feed. When pregnant I'd wanted to try and bf for 6 months but I was quite relaxed in my approach thinking if I didn't like it I wouldn't stress myself. As it happens I've gotten on great and now plan to continue to a year when I'll give her cows milk during the day and breast milk at night. During my time breast feeding I've been confident and happy with my decision but the last few weeks other people make me feel like I should stop. A friend of mine had a Lo a coupl of weeks before me and bf for 3 months before switching to formula. She's a single mum so it meant she could have a few nights off here and there. She's made a few comments lately though which bug me "There's no point you coming on nights out if you can't drink" "There's no point now she's on solids to" "I just any imagine a baby that big still bf it's odd" "My Lo put on much more weight now she's on formula, yours will to" her Lo was a bit smaller but my Lo is on the 75 centile so I don't know why she'd suggest that to me "You'd be able to diet and lose the extra weight if you quit" I just don't really know what to say in response, a few other friends have also questioned me bf so long. I'm happy bf and I'm not bothered about drinking and nights out. I've said I want to go on nights out and don't mind only having a couple but apparently That's "boring". My Lo has only spent three nights away from me which is how I like it but I guess my friends make me feel that at 25 I should out partying still I'm just a bit down, I knew when pg to expect pressure TO bf but I never expected pressure to quit.