Hi thank you to Charlie and Kate for your kind replies and good luck Kate with getting preggers. Sending baby dust your way. I have lived down south for 4 years now but still miss up north. I am a born and bread Northumbrian. And would also welcome contact with expecting mums from my home land. Ive almost lost my geodie accent much to my horror and love going home to hear the sweet sound of a northern voice. My whole family are up there and now im preggers i miss them all the more. We are a very close family. If i have a boy the baby wil be named after my mums maiden name Collier and Phillips as a middle name from my dads surname, with my James wiggins as the surname. As im not married to james i would not share my babies surname and naming my boy Collier Phillips Wiggins gives my child my identity and my families as well as a strong Northern name. Sorry for going on a bit when i start ranting i can go on forever. Looking forward to all contacts and a happy and healthy pregnacy to all!!!