Dragonfly Fi
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Because i dont want to go and visit his mother the day after we get our postmortem results. We had booked in to see her that weekend but before we knew we were getting the postmortem results... I dont want to see her
She has barely acknowledged the baby, changing the subject whenever she can. I dont think she has even asked me if i am okay or anything.
Anyway the LAST thing i want is to have to pretend that it didnt happen, particularly that weekend... I think it would be horrid to have to act as if everything was fine when actually its not.
She keeps saying she will 'come and visit' in January too, i dont bloody WANT her here the month my child was due, if i see people at all that month it will be people who at least have some acknowledgement of what happened to me and that it was bloody horrid. Going through such a late loss was awful. The experience was awful, why do i need to act to my MiL that nothing ever happened?
I will act like nothing ever happened in the future, because its Liams mum and she clearly doesnt know how to deal with it, but i am not a complete bitch for not wanting to see her right now am i?


Anyway the LAST thing i want is to have to pretend that it didnt happen, particularly that weekend... I think it would be horrid to have to act as if everything was fine when actually its not.
She keeps saying she will 'come and visit' in January too, i dont bloody WANT her here the month my child was due, if i see people at all that month it will be people who at least have some acknowledgement of what happened to me and that it was bloody horrid. Going through such a late loss was awful. The experience was awful, why do i need to act to my MiL that nothing ever happened?
I will act like nothing ever happened in the future, because its Liams mum and she clearly doesnt know how to deal with it, but i am not a complete bitch for not wanting to see her right now am i?
