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Hi,
I've just been looking online about the different things that could be wrong etc. I noticed that lots of ladies were saying after their 3rd mc, they had almost every test to see what might be causing it, and some were even offered ivf straight away.
Which tests have you ladies had?
Because I've had 4 now, and all I've been tested for is auto immune disorders, and had 1 TV scan. My hubby hasn't had any tests, and they haven't even asked about him. When we went to my gp even she thought it was weird that he hasn't even been asked any questions or had a sperm sample. They said when I get pregnant next, cancel the appointment and go to my gp so they can book me in for a scan at 6 weeks. So no tests while I'm pregnant at all, then if i miscarry again, Id need to wait another 3 months to get an appointment. Am i just being fobbed off here? Or is this normal?
My next appointment is 10th October. What shall I ask and do i need to know, I haven't a clue. I wanna demand shit now, this is stupid. It's my life. Obviously they don't care. Xx
I've just been looking online about the different things that could be wrong etc. I noticed that lots of ladies were saying after their 3rd mc, they had almost every test to see what might be causing it, and some were even offered ivf straight away.
Which tests have you ladies had?
Because I've had 4 now, and all I've been tested for is auto immune disorders, and had 1 TV scan. My hubby hasn't had any tests, and they haven't even asked about him. When we went to my gp even she thought it was weird that he hasn't even been asked any questions or had a sperm sample. They said when I get pregnant next, cancel the appointment and go to my gp so they can book me in for a scan at 6 weeks. So no tests while I'm pregnant at all, then if i miscarry again, Id need to wait another 3 months to get an appointment. Am i just being fobbed off here? Or is this normal?
My next appointment is 10th October. What shall I ask and do i need to know, I haven't a clue. I wanna demand shit now, this is stupid. It's my life. Obviously they don't care. Xx