Kinda sad

[pinkyprincess]

My bump buddy has disappeared.

When pregnant we'd talk all the time on here and by text, found her amazing at supporting me and I hope she felt the same. After her baby was born she barely came on anymore which I understand but we sent each other text every couple of week and had a catch up as to how the babies were doing. Last time I spoke to her was the end of Feb. I've sent her 2 texts. One 2 weeks after her last text as normal and one in may. Never heard anything back.

I'm not trying to be all 'stalkery' at all I'm just genuinely concerned as she had a medical condition to deal with as well as baby and I'd love to know how her and LO are getting on.

She was also my 'forum buddy' ice never really been as close to anyone else if that makes sense?

Anyone else gone through this and miss their bump buddies?

 

[BevG]

aww thats not good, is she ok or just busy do you think? i wasnt really close with my buddies but theyre still here lol hey ladies so i know theyre fine. i think me and larly would get forum withdrawal if we were away for long were that addicted but im crap at the whole social thing

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

Yep bev

Not seen zoeox around for ages tho. Or hugsy

 

[BevG]

yeah hugsy never was on much after having kayla. she pops on sometimes tho. can text her tho n see where shes got to

 

[BevG]

hugsy was last on on the 4th, said she hadnt been on for a bit cos she was busy with kayla n her reflux etc. zoex on the other hand hasnt been on since the 26th of may

 

[wannabmummy]

I miss my bump buddy loads! She comes on here sometimes but not much any more she's still on fb but would love to see her on here more! When we were pregnant we would private message coz we were the last of the march girls to go and didn't feel like we fitted in tri 3 any more after you all left but I love chatting to all you lovely girlies every day don't know what I'd do without you all!

I do miss my bump buddy though! Xx

 

[Princess81]

Awww that's a shame
I still have mine

 

[My1stBaby]

aww thats a shame!! mines still here, isnt that right BB! xxx

 

[BabyBrain]

Too right chick! xxxxxxxx

 

[Princess81]

We're all still here for u though pinky xx

 

[BevG]

yeah pinky, you can text me anytime if you still have my number, i really appreciated being able to update thru you and leanne since hugsy and larly were still out of action after their births when i went into labour lol. i still have your number i just feel like im butting into ppl lives when i text them if were not good friends lol. hell even my real life friends dont reply to most of my texts lol

 

[My1stBaby]

i feel mean now that i was showing off that mine was still here- i didnt mean it like that!

we are all your buddies pinky xxx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Lol thanks guys. Just come back from baby group and just feel like shit there was only 3 of us there and as per usual I was the youngest and I swear people constantly look down on me, they were talking about work and didn't include it ask me like I don't work because I have a baby and just generally wern't involving me. They were asking each other how they fed and sat there talking about bfing and didn't ask me like i'm not. Then going on about how their babies sleep through and take bottles which is always a sore point. I wouldn't mind but I have no friends around here and out of my friends only one has ever visited Tyler. Think I'm just having one of those days.

 

[Mrs N]

Aww hun, sorry your feeling low!! I wish that some mums would be a bit more inclusive and supportive to others!! I always make an effort to talk to someone new at my baby groups coz im a bit trappy but wud hate to be left out if I was new!! Have you tried doing a group were you do an activity?? I do baby sensory and a music group which is great coz there is something to do and you have things in common with the other mums!! Also have you tried net mums?? They do a thing were you can meet other mums in your area!!
xxx

 

[Princess81]

Awwww xx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Aww hun, sorry your feeling low!! I wish that some mums would be a bit more inclusive and supportive to others!! I always make an effort to talk to someone new at my baby groups coz im a bit trappy but wud hate to be left out if I was new!! Have you tried doing a group were you do an activity?? I do baby sensory and a music group which is great coz there is something to do and you have things in common with the other mums!! Also have you tried net mums?? They do a thing were you can meet other mums in your area!!
xxx

I've been on the baby massage waiting list for a month but got a call today saying I have a place and waiting for baby yoga to start. I put something on netmums and chickened out!

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

I put an ad on net mums and ended up meeting a lady I'd seen twice in the waitin room, once when she had her baby & I was overdue & them when Henry had arrived. She was due the day before me but had her lo a week early.

We meet up once a week for a natter. It's worth a go pinky. I only met up with her so soon cos I already kinda knew her x

 

[Froslass]

Aww pinky I'm sure she's okay, maybe just got a lot to deal with just now x I rarely remember to reply to texts now x

Marley was my bump buddy

I still talk to her on here from time to time xx I might send her a wee PM x


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[BabyBrain]

I think tbh we are all bump buddies, and birth buddies, and mummy buddies anyway. We all have something different to bring to the table so to speak.

 

[Jaxx01]

I miss mine we text a bit but just don't think she has the time for Internet anymore x