Kick me!

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  1. mouse9210

    mouse9210 Well-Known Member

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    Does anyone else find it difficult to find the time and energy to bd with a lo?!

    My dd is 11 months and always on the go - and I just don't feel like bding! I'm on cd12 with high readings on cbfm - so I know I should be bding every other day as will prob Ov this week but all I feel like doing is sleeping!

    Someone pls give me a kick up the **** to get me moving!!! :)
     
  2. Shootingstar11

    Shootingstar11 Well-Known Member

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    Yup. It's so hard to find a bit of me time, let alone time for that!

    But, oi, you, get back on that horse and get bding ASAP!
     
  3. Beckyb1991

    Beckyb1991 Well-Known Member

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    I'm air kicking you up the bum! Now go and have sex lol! X
     
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    jodie34 Well-Known Member

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    Oh i know how u feel my lil mans been ill all week so no sleep and defo no energy to dtd but it has to be done , so a cyber kick up the arse for u and and a kick up the arse for me lol ... oh the joys of ttc xx
     
  5. mouse9210

    mouse9210 Well-Known Member

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    Thank you - seriously what is wrong with me?! I love sex! Lol but I so rarely feel up for it, plus the added pressure of this week being 'the week'.....

    I've told my oh that this week is a good week (I try not to put pressure on him) but I don't feel like pouncing on him! I hope he pounces on me though!

    Maybe you could just kick us both up the bum?! We really want another lo!
     
  6. Shootingstar11

    Shootingstar11 Well-Known Member

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    Just walk pass him naked...or causally strut by him in your underwear. :)
     
  7. mouse9210

    mouse9210 Well-Known Member

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    Haha I'm not sure it'd have the desired effect with all my wobbly bits on show! Hardly appealing!
     
  8. Natalilly1288

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    I no exactly how u feel the pressure of it being the right time is bad! This hot weather hasn't done anything 4 me either! Lol I also need a kick up the bum! Xxx
     
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    mouse9210 Well-Known Member

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    We have completely got out of practice since our lo was born, we only tend to dtd once a month ish (poor oh!) so suddenly expecting to have a week of bonking is probably unrealistic!

    But I'd like to dtd two/three times this week so I can have a tww......

    Natalilly - ill kick you if you kick me!
     
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    megsmeadow Well-Known Member

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    Oh I totally understand. My lo is 3 and is having broken sleep, and we both work full time so it's early nights for us, but not in a good way!!
     
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    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

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    I haven't even got a child as an excuse lol!! Just not in the mood!! Kick up the bum given!! Xxxxx
     
  12. mouse9210

    mouse9210 Well-Known Member

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    I'm the same megs - I'm usually in bed by ten and the last thing I am thinking about is sexy time!

    How on earth am I going to get myself in the mood ?!
     
  13. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

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    It doesn't help me the fact I'm the worse person ever in the morning lol def wouldn't have the energy! Lol what a bad oh I am!! Xxx
     
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    mouse9210 Well-Known Member

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    Right - have told oh that we need to get on with this in a very British beat around the bush type of way......ummm think we need to ummmm you know.... Shenanigans tonight?

    I'm 29 yrs old and I somehow can't manage to say c'mon let's have sex! Lol
     

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