Please help me and oh are in a bit of a dilemma. i am english and my husband is Italian, it is their family tradition to name boys after their grandfather (fathers side). problem is we arnt keen on the name, we know we are expecting a boy and have always loved the name Alessandro but now feel pressured to naming him Mario after father in law. we have already had comments from other Italian people saying "are you calling him Mario? you have to really" so annoying. I know it means the world to him and he would be forever grateful but do we name our son to please him or be selfish and name him what we want? We already have a daughter who isnt named after anyone but i feel if we dont name him after father in law we will feel guilty. advice and views most welcome.