samanthajayne
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what do you do with your babies all day .....
i'm just wondering what you all do to pass the day and entertain your lo's. we don't always go out everyday so a few days a week we are just in the house. he sleeps not too bad from between half 8 and half 9 till about 8-9 in the morning but no he doesn't sleep through yet. i will wake him between 12 and 1 depending when i go to bed for a feed and then he will wake up himself around 5 or 6 sometimes even 7 for a feed then will sleep another hour or 2 before wanting to start the day. compared to some of you i guess this is pretty good. this morning was quite bad he woke up at half 6 and he had wind but wouldn't bring it up and didn't go back to sleep till gone half 7 till 9 after half an hour of hiccups. so after he has woken up i will bring him downstairs and sit him up in his pram where he will happily giggle to himself for a little while which gives me a little time to make his bottles for the day. he will then get a bit cranky and want a feed so i'll feed him and wind him and then play with him with some of his toys. around half 10 its dressed time followed with a bit more play then a cat nap around half 11. when he awakes he will normally want a feed as he feeds roughly every 3 hours which i think is right for his age i hope so anyway. so by this time its around half 12 - 1 ish. on the days we go out we would go out around this time and that passes away a few hours then when i get home i'll then normally take him to his dads for the evening where i will then feed him when i get there and we will either go out or stay in where i try and play with him and entertain him some more till around 8 and i will get him ready for sleep change his clothes and probably feed him again and then take him for a walk which normally sends him off to sleep. he is always asleep no later than 9 sometimes it takes 2 or 3 walks to send him to sleep. if we don't walk him he will just scream and scream and he needs a bit of encouragement to drift off to sleep. i will then let him sleep in his buggy till i leave to go home around 11-12. then its home feed wind nappy change then in his crib and he goes straight back off to sleep. i am thinking of a travel cot though for him to sleep in at my bf's. seems a bit cruel making him sleep in his buggy but he seems happy to do that for the moment. so on the days we don't go out i will try entertain him with his toys all day till he needs a nap he will have an afternoon nap between 3 and 4 and then a matter of keeping him happy and amused till bath time around 7 and maybe a walk later on all wrapped up warm of course if he really won't settle and then still wake him at around 12-1 for a feed then back down til he wakes up again. sometimes its just really hard to keep him amused cos he seems to get bored very easily with his toys, play gym, swinging chair and door bouncer. on a good day we go in the garden. its only 1 or 2 days a week we don't go out anywhere but its tireing keeping him amused. i don't always get much sleep either as when he goes to sleep at my bf's my bf is quite selfish and thinks i should be spending the quiet time with him and not asleep. he just doesn't understand how hard it is at times. i had to stay over at his once and he was that tired he had to have the day off work and that was just getting up twice in the night to help with the night feeds when he was smaller. what a whimp he is couldn't even manage it for 1 night. my mum is great though she lets me have 3 nights a week off where i go to a friends and catch up on sleep if i need to or just have some me time. i live with my mum and dad and she helps loads but most of the time i still feel like its too much to cope with so i go to my bf's when i can for as long as i can so she can have some time off from being around a baby. sometimes its so hard to please everyone and still function. there have been days when we've been out all afternoon and all i want to do is curl up on the sofa and watch tv but no can't do that i then have to go back out to my bf's so my mum has the house to herself with my dad. so i get to my bf's nackered and he doesn't really help much i still have to feed him play with him etc while he does whatever. occasionally he will talk to him and have a little play but thats it. god sometimes i wonder why it was a good idea having a baby with him. i could never live with him he drives me crazy anyway i'm kinda just moaning now. could you tell me if the things i am doing are ok and what else i could possibly do to entertain him. sometimes he is happy amusing himself with rattles etc in his pram but i feel mean leaving him to do that. guess you could say i'm really not adjusting too well to life with a baby and just don't know what to do for the best. there have been times where i just want him gone but i know i'd be so hurt if i did give him up. i'm just very tired and confused at the moment. thankyou for reading and for any replies in advance as i may not be able to check back for a while. i'm so surprised i have even found the time to put a post up on here.
i'm just wondering what you all do to pass the day and entertain your lo's. we don't always go out everyday so a few days a week we are just in the house. he sleeps not too bad from between half 8 and half 9 till about 8-9 in the morning but no he doesn't sleep through yet. i will wake him between 12 and 1 depending when i go to bed for a feed and then he will wake up himself around 5 or 6 sometimes even 7 for a feed then will sleep another hour or 2 before wanting to start the day. compared to some of you i guess this is pretty good. this morning was quite bad he woke up at half 6 and he had wind but wouldn't bring it up and didn't go back to sleep till gone half 7 till 9 after half an hour of hiccups. so after he has woken up i will bring him downstairs and sit him up in his pram where he will happily giggle to himself for a little while which gives me a little time to make his bottles for the day. he will then get a bit cranky and want a feed so i'll feed him and wind him and then play with him with some of his toys. around half 10 its dressed time followed with a bit more play then a cat nap around half 11. when he awakes he will normally want a feed as he feeds roughly every 3 hours which i think is right for his age i hope so anyway. so by this time its around half 12 - 1 ish. on the days we go out we would go out around this time and that passes away a few hours then when i get home i'll then normally take him to his dads for the evening where i will then feed him when i get there and we will either go out or stay in where i try and play with him and entertain him some more till around 8 and i will get him ready for sleep change his clothes and probably feed him again and then take him for a walk which normally sends him off to sleep. he is always asleep no later than 9 sometimes it takes 2 or 3 walks to send him to sleep. if we don't walk him he will just scream and scream and he needs a bit of encouragement to drift off to sleep. i will then let him sleep in his buggy till i leave to go home around 11-12. then its home feed wind nappy change then in his crib and he goes straight back off to sleep. i am thinking of a travel cot though for him to sleep in at my bf's. seems a bit cruel making him sleep in his buggy but he seems happy to do that for the moment. so on the days we don't go out i will try entertain him with his toys all day till he needs a nap he will have an afternoon nap between 3 and 4 and then a matter of keeping him happy and amused till bath time around 7 and maybe a walk later on all wrapped up warm of course if he really won't settle and then still wake him at around 12-1 for a feed then back down til he wakes up again. sometimes its just really hard to keep him amused cos he seems to get bored very easily with his toys, play gym, swinging chair and door bouncer. on a good day we go in the garden. its only 1 or 2 days a week we don't go out anywhere but its tireing keeping him amused. i don't always get much sleep either as when he goes to sleep at my bf's my bf is quite selfish and thinks i should be spending the quiet time with him and not asleep. he just doesn't understand how hard it is at times. i had to stay over at his once and he was that tired he had to have the day off work and that was just getting up twice in the night to help with the night feeds when he was smaller. what a whimp he is couldn't even manage it for 1 night. my mum is great though she lets me have 3 nights a week off where i go to a friends and catch up on sleep if i need to or just have some me time. i live with my mum and dad and she helps loads but most of the time i still feel like its too much to cope with so i go to my bf's when i can for as long as i can so she can have some time off from being around a baby. sometimes its so hard to please everyone and still function. there have been days when we've been out all afternoon and all i want to do is curl up on the sofa and watch tv but no can't do that i then have to go back out to my bf's so my mum has the house to herself with my dad. so i get to my bf's nackered and he doesn't really help much i still have to feed him play with him etc while he does whatever. occasionally he will talk to him and have a little play but thats it. god sometimes i wonder why it was a good idea having a baby with him. i could never live with him he drives me crazy anyway i'm kinda just moaning now. could you tell me if the things i am doing are ok and what else i could possibly do to entertain him. sometimes he is happy amusing himself with rattles etc in his pram but i feel mean leaving him to do that. guess you could say i'm really not adjusting too well to life with a baby and just don't know what to do for the best. there have been times where i just want him gone but i know i'd be so hurt if i did give him up. i'm just very tired and confused at the moment. thankyou for reading and for any replies in advance as i may not be able to check back for a while. i'm so surprised i have even found the time to put a post up on here.