Oh Urban, that does sound tough. For starters maybe 'accidentally' drop something on you OH's for?... As for your doggy i can understand it must be a concern. How about you both go for a chat with midwife as I'm sure she's had couples with the same issue before and she may be able to mediate between the love of a pet and maternal instinct to protect, at the least she may be able to recommend someone local who might help x