Earlier today my mum came over to see me and everything was fine until she started talking about the 20 week scan, and saying she was so excited to find out whether I was having a boy or a girl. I said that we actually don't want to know with this one, and then she started going on about "oh you have to know!" "how will you know what colour clothes to buy!?" "I found out with you!" She just won't accept I want to wait until the birth. Why can't she just let me and my husband decide what we want to do with MY pregnancy ? Sorry for ranting on here, but it really upset me.