hello everyone!! I had my baby 11 weeks ago. Everything is going good apart from the normal things that comes with being a new mother. My husband has got a new job and is working away these next few weeks and then it will be a week in every 5-6. Thing is I am ok when he is here with me I have no issues but when he goes away I feel like I’m panicking. I fret for days before he goes and then when he is gone I feel lonely and sad down. I worry constantly about my baby I can’t relax or get a proper sleep. I can’t be bothered eating but I know I have to. My mum comes around in the evenings some nights to help me out as I get over whelmed. However, when he returns I feel myself again. I don’t think my husbands understand why I need so much help at this stage. However I feel that I should accept all help that is offered? Sometimes I feel like a failure if I need someone to come help me in the evenings. Anyone been in a similar position any tips?