Is this a bfp?

Discussion in 'Am I Pregnant?' started by Jessica753, Oct 17, 2020 at 6:17 PM.

  1. Jessica753

    Jessica753 Well-Known Member

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    Partner says no but I swear I can sn see it

     
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    Oh yeah, plain as day on the second test. A bit faint on the FRER but I see it there too :) Congrats!
     
  3. Jessica753

    Jessica753 Well-Known Member

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    Oh thank God!! Thank you so much! My partner was making me feel crazy all day because he swore he couldn't see anything. I know the frer is faint but in person it was there, not even 1 minute in to the test it was there ❤️❤️❤️
     
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    Definitely! Congratulations! X
     
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    @Princess81 thankyou so much ❤️❤️❤️ can I just ask, can you see a line in the frer (first pic) sorry to be a bother lol
     
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    Yes I see it! I think men would only be fully convinced if it’s a dark line, but the tests don’t work that way. I deffo had to repeatedly explain to my partner that even a faint line is a positive! I continued to tests for a while after just because I was obsessed with seeing the line get darker.
    Congratulations!
     
  7. Jessica753

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    Thank you so much!!!
    My partner made me feel so stupid because of it. He insisted it was nothing, but i just knew it was something.
    I'll probably be the same as you, already ordered loads more tests to watch the line get darker ❤️
     
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    100%!! Congratulations xx
     
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    I *think* so, but that one is a real squinter x
     
  10. Jessica753

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    Thank you everyone ❤️

    I've just looked over my Calendar for the past month and I might be wrong here but I don't think I was ovulating when we had sex? Is there a chance this is a false possitive?
     
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    I’m sure sperm can survive for 5-7 days and your tests look positive
     
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    False positives are extremely rare. Like Louise said, sperm can survive up there for a long time! :D You don’t need to be having sex exactly as you ovulate :)
     
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    Thank you both so much, that's what I was hoping!!
    It was actually my partner who pointed it out then when I looked back I noticed he might be right but I think he's in denial now.
     
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    Have you taken anymore tests
     
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    Jessica753 Well-Known Member

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    Yes, but they have both been negative
     
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    There's a chance it could have been a chemical pregnancy then unfortunately :(
     
  17. Jessica753

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    Thats what I'm thinking :(
    I 2 clear blue tests and they were both negative, I've read that the frer is more accurate though but I'm sure if I were pregnant right now it would have shown up on the clear blue. I guess I'll just have to wait for af :(
     
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    I'm sorry :( I really hope it doesn't show up and that your HCG is just a slow burner.
     
  19. Jessica753

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    Thank you :-(
    With my son (he's 4 now) it actually took me a couple months to get a possitive result, then I went for a scan and found out I was 3 months pregnant, so I think my hcg levels do take a while to rise. I'll take another frer tomorrow if af doesn't show. I'm devastated. My partner is going to laugh at me
     
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    Why would he laugh at you?? That's not very kind :(
     

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