I am at the end of my tether with exhaustion and just cannot see it getting any better. Hubby just snores all night long and does not hear dd wake up in the night or even flinches when I'm doing the 3am sitting next to him! He has said many times that he will do the night feeds when it is his day off or Saturday night but he just sleeps through her crying even when I have tried to wake him so I have landed up doing them myself. Now I know this is being part of a new parent and I really don't mind doing them but just get so frustrated with him. I have been doing more of the 11pm feeds as well the last week as he has been playing Xbox (in the bedroom) and says maybe mummy would like to feed even though I have done every feed during the day and was supposed to be in bed getting some sleep!! It came to a head at 4:30 this morning as LO would not settle after her Kfeed so I was sitting and cuddling her, then she was spitting her dummy out and looking for it, all the time he was laying there snoring really loudly. I finally settled her and put her in her basket but could not sleep over his noise so lost it and went and cleared the spare bed, I finally disturbed him and asked him to listen for her in the morning and he said no he won't hear her. I dragged her basket and stand with me (I've had c-sec so can't lift) and we both squeezed in to the pare room. He did not even offer to go! With both doors shut and a bathroom and landing inbetween I could still hear him. The bottom line, I got about 3 hours sleep and I'm now complet exhausted and have got to get through a day of visitors and not snapping and loosing it with him. I honestly could have harmed him to stop him snoring last night it really scared me and I landed up sobbing myself to sleep.