In memory!!

[scaredmum2be]

Today with the baby i lost on the 5th september i would of been due so today really hasnt been my day an it makes me laugh at how some people can forget something like this it was only me an hubby that remembered,

its like some people have not a thought in the world an its not because they didnt wana upset me its the fact they "forgot" its like forgetting there important ones birthdays or a death you know its not something you'd forget.

Its been a struggle to be honest, yeah im greatful for the child ive got growing inside me but i went to buy my pram for the baby inside me an brought a memorial tree for the baby we lost we brought 2.

I know life goes on... Gone but not forgotten in my heart thats all i can say.

R.I.P ANGEL- BABY T
xxxx

 

[Sam's Mum]

I'm so sorry people didn't remember. Thinking of you

 

[Rowesb]

big

 

[FebMum2Be]

So sorry hun x

 

[titch]

tree sounds like a good idea hun. Shame people forgot but Im glad you and your husband are marking the day in a really positive way xxx

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

 

[ria__x]

awww hun! it is amazing how self involved people can be.. but you and your hubby remembered and that's all that matters! lots of big a tree sounds like a lovely way to honour his/her memory!

i hope you feel better soon, we're all here for you! xxx

 

[katietateypot]

so sorry people forgot!! xxx

 

[evajo]

Thinking of you both today - a tree is a lovely way to remember your angel x

 

[MrsR]

Been thinking of you today! Big hugs! So sorry others forgot!

 

[bwakeling]

When we had a m/c in 2008 my wife's family didn't even contact us to offer their condolences, later blaming the fact that they "didn't know what to say". Even if you don't know what to say, say something!

Sorry for your loss.

 

[bwakeling]

Thinking of you both today - a tree is a lovely way to remember your angel x

We planted a rose for our lost one, it's definitely a good idea.

 

[skimpy]

I have to admit i did this to someone i knew recently. it was purely ignorance, and after reading this thread, and understanding that an acknowledgment might have been welcomed, I will behave differently in future.

Thing is, does everyone want to be reminded? im so awkward in these situations.

Thanks for enlightening me xxx

 

[scaredmum2be]

Ty everyone its just i felt really down that day, and its nice to have a remindance in the garden, even though we hoped on a girl we got a boy tree and a girl tree out of respect, we was always going to get one but we waited till the march the 11th.

Losing a baby will always be remembered no matter what and people may not what to be reminded but me an other half have to live with it everysingle day its the fact that people dont remember ie when my mother forgot "well if i had gone nearly full term on that pregnancy she wud remember the date that the baby had been born on simple as" just because you lose a baby doesnt mean you can or want to remove a memory that could of been. at that time 12 weeks.

its nice of the people that have remembered, because it doesnt have to be a sad day actually those trees i brought was not only a remembrance but for the baby ive got growing inside me im thankful of another chance an Baby T's tree will be a lovely looking tree(just hoping the dogs dont dig or pee) lol.

im glad that even hubby remembered he knows its been a right difficult month with other things going onto which im glad i could have a little cry an talk bout little other baby but dont talk sad about the tree cause thats our Trini-tree as hubby calls it .

thanks you girlies xxxx