Bubba is 4 months next week and from the moment she was born I wanted to try for another asap. It took us 2 years to conceive, and I'm worried that once we start trying again it'll take another two years+ What sort of age gap is best? I'd like her to have a sibling to play with. However, my pregnancy was AWFUL and I cannot imagine having a baby/toddler to care for whilst having 9 months of terrible illness. Bubba is also an absolute demanding, fussy, high needs child - I'm not sure having another whilst she is such a pain is the best idea.