Laura1992
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Is anyone else FED UP of comments like this and unsolicited advice?
Whenever I say anything "not long now, looking forward to them being here!" to try and be positive when I'm totally fed up and tired and uncomfortable and anxious about becoming a mum, I get these really negative comments generally along the lines of..
"Ah if you think you're tired now, just wait until they're here!"
"you're in control now. Enjoy it while it lasts because you won't be doing anything once they're here" - oh yeah, I feel SO in control when I practically pee myself every time I stand up and can't get out of bed some days for pain.
"Hopefully they come after Christmas so you can enjoy your last Christmas lunch"
Etc etc. It's soo negative and irritating. I also keep getting told that I'd better not share a room with them otherwise I won't sleep (not sure how that's supposed to work??) and not to feed on demand and "oh don't buy a bath, just wash them in the sink". Bloody fed up! I know hormones and tiredness are making me grumpy about it and I should just ignore it but it's getting me down
Whenever I say anything "not long now, looking forward to them being here!" to try and be positive when I'm totally fed up and tired and uncomfortable and anxious about becoming a mum, I get these really negative comments generally along the lines of..
"Ah if you think you're tired now, just wait until they're here!"
"you're in control now. Enjoy it while it lasts because you won't be doing anything once they're here" - oh yeah, I feel SO in control when I practically pee myself every time I stand up and can't get out of bed some days for pain.
"Hopefully they come after Christmas so you can enjoy your last Christmas lunch"
Etc etc. It's soo negative and irritating. I also keep getting told that I'd better not share a room with them otherwise I won't sleep (not sure how that's supposed to work??) and not to feed on demand and "oh don't buy a bath, just wash them in the sink". Bloody fed up! I know hormones and tiredness are making me grumpy about it and I should just ignore it but it's getting me down