I knew my fiance wouldnt keep on tidying up after himself!! I went downstairs at 7pm to have some rice krispies not having been down since wednesday as have felt awfull since then (was on my feet too long) to find the kitchen a tip. The sink is full of washing up sat in dirty water that looks like its been there since wednesday, he has used every single piece of crockery and cutlery and every mug and saucepan and what he hasnt dumped in the sink is just dumped on the work top. He hasnt done the cats litter tray since I did it and I cant remember when that was and the bin is overflowing. I just want to cry, I know its tough on him as I cant really do it and it is me that normally does it all as he is naturally bone idle but I would at least thought that he would try for more than a couple of days. Ive now worn myself out by spending an hour and a half doing the washing up, emptying the bin and changing the cats litter, ive now got the shakes and feel really sick and wobbly. Im dreading what the house will look like after I get home from my c section. Not only that but he wont stop going on that he wants " some" and thinks I being mean not giving him any, fair enough he hasnt had any since I first started with morning sickness but I dont see what the big problem is? Im sure that he isnt the only man who is being told no. The doctors and midwives have told him from the start that smoking is harmful to baby but he hasnt been interested in quitting or even trying but I had to stop riding and he harps on that even going near the horses is dangerous- what a load of crap! Not only do I not want it at all but Ive lost soo much weight (now 50kg max) that I couldnt cope with his 150kg leaning on me, I just dont feel well enough! Sorry ladies for the moan, I just feel really disappointed.