i had my first scan and the worst has happened

Discussion in 'First Trimester' started by sarahj, Aug 5, 2005.

  1. sarahj

    sarahj Well-Known Member

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    hi ladies, i have been posting in this sectiom for weeks now and i can not belive what has happened to me. i went for a 10 week scan just to check my due date only to find out that my little bean had stopped growing at 6 weeks. it is such a shock i just can not cope :cry: i had to have surgery on wednesday and now i just can not even start to describe how i feel.

    very sad sarah
     
  2. Sarah W Baby Belly

    Sarah W Baby Belly Well-Known Member

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    I feel so sorry for you. I am sending all the hugs that I can for you.

    Love to you

    Sarah W Baby Belly
     
  3. Kerry

    Kerry Well-Known Member

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    Sending all my love to you Sarah and a HUGE hug..........

    Wish I could say or do something to make everything ok for you again.

    Much love
     
  4. Julia

    Julia Well-Known Member

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    There are no words to describe how sad you must feel......I had a m/c in March which was bad enough but to actually find out during a scan when you think everything is fine must be soul destroying.......

    My thoughts are with you, lovely xxxxxx
     
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    Really sorry sarah, i know how you're feeling i went through it last year, had to have the D&C done too, if you need a chat pm me.

    Hugs manda x
     
  6. ToriElla

    ToriElla Well-Known Member

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    Oh no!! I'm so sorry to hear that :(
    Wish there was something we could do or say to make you feel better.

    Love Vicky x
     
  7. LouisecH

    LouisecH Well-Known Member

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    Hi Sarah

    I'm so sorry to hear you sad news. I've been through it too (jan this year and I know how awful it is.
    Big hug
    Louise x
     
  8. Guest

    I'm so sorry to hear your news sweetheart. Sending my love to you xx
     
  9. beanie

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    Thinking of you hon and send you a massive hug. Lots of love, xx
     
  10. LucyBee

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    Sending you love and cuddles Sarah. :cry:
    I'm so sorry.
    Lucyx
     
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    I am so sorry for you Sarah,
    wish i did not feel so useless!!! I can only send you big hugs and love.

    Mel xx
     
  12. boo boo

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    Im sorry to hear what has happened, u must be devastated. Sorry for ur loss, i could never imagine what u are goin thro, all my love. Hope u keep ur safe safe and happy.

    bec x x x
     
  13. sarahj

    sarahj Well-Known Member

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    thankyou so much for all your support. im starting to feel a litle better now and i know with time my feelings will heal. you all have been lovely and i wish you all the best. you never know i could be back with some good news soon x x x x
     
  14. boo boo

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    Keep us updated, my fingers and toes and arms and legs (well i think u get the picture now, lol) are alll crossed for u, and i hope everythin is ok

    bec x x
     
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    ree77 Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you warm wishes and thoughts! Keep us posted!

    xoxo
     
  16. Ally

    Ally Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry to read this, thinking of you.

    xxxxxxxx
     
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    hayley Well-Known Member

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    Hi Sarah

    How are you feeling today? Been thinking of you all week since I read your post. I'm so sorry for you and your partner.
    Hope your begining to feel a little better. Big hug x
     
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    Anna Marie Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear about your little bean Sarah.. only just read this thread and as I am just beginning to come to terms with my m/c [started bleeding last week and scan showed no heart beat at 8 weeks] I know how sad and empty you are feeling.

    Don't give up hope as we have to believe that there will be other little beans in our future.

    take care
     

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