Sarah&Braydon
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i am really suffering with my parents at the mo all we do is argue, and mostly coz i am'lazy' tthinking that i work 16 hours a week look after a baby do the washing ironing hooverin and general house work every day i dont see how i am lazy!!!
anyway i am starting to think that maybe its time for me and brayds to leave my parents there is benifits and bad parts of this plan so i am really confused,
the good bits our
-independence
-i make the rules for braydon
-i get treated like an adult than a 5 yr old
(please add if u can think of more lol)
bad bits are
- ill have to give up work
- have no money
- and no me time
i really dont wanna give up work altho i really struggle being away from Braydon n i am not getting along ell with some people i work with (which is getting me down in itself) i need the money and if i was to give up work id have to go onto benifits and i really dont want to do that (not wanting to start a benifit fite again)
but i dont know how much more of being treated like a two year old i can cope with, some days being at home is great but then like others tday, iv had a driving lesson, done tidying up, ironing, gone to tesco and town (for mum) but yet tonite i get told im ' lazy' and i have to fold up the clothers (familys) and do the bathroom as well as looking after a baby that wont stay in one place
sorry rant over lol
anyway i am starting to think that maybe its time for me and brayds to leave my parents there is benifits and bad parts of this plan so i am really confused,
the good bits our
-independence
-i make the rules for braydon
-i get treated like an adult than a 5 yr old
(please add if u can think of more lol)
bad bits are
- ill have to give up work
- have no money
- and no me time
i really dont wanna give up work altho i really struggle being away from Braydon n i am not getting along ell with some people i work with (which is getting me down in itself) i need the money and if i was to give up work id have to go onto benifits and i really dont want to do that (not wanting to start a benifit fite again)
but i dont know how much more of being treated like a two year old i can cope with, some days being at home is great but then like others tday, iv had a driving lesson, done tidying up, ironing, gone to tesco and town (for mum) but yet tonite i get told im ' lazy' and i have to fold up the clothers (familys) and do the bathroom as well as looking after a baby that wont stay in one place
sorry rant over lol