i dont know wot to do

[Sarah&Braydon]

i am really suffering with my parents at the mo all we do is argue, and mostly coz i am'lazy' tthinking that i work 16 hours a week look after a baby do the washing ironing hooverin and general house work every day i dont see how i am lazy!!!
anyway i am starting to think that maybe its time for me and brayds to leave my parents there is benifits and bad parts of this plan so i am really confused,
the good bits our
-independence
-i make the rules for braydon
-i get treated like an adult than a 5 yr old
(please add if u can think of more lol)
bad bits are
- ill have to give up work
- have no money
- and no me time

i really dont wanna give up work altho i really struggle being away from Braydon n i am not getting along ell with some people i work with (which is getting me down in itself) i need the money and if i was to give up work id have to go onto benifits and i really dont want to do that (not wanting to start a benifit fite again)
but i dont know how much more of being treated like a two year old i can cope with, some days being at home is great but then like others tday, iv had a driving lesson, done tidying up, ironing, gone to tesco and town (for mum) but yet tonite i get told im ' lazy' and i have to fold up the clothers (familys) and do the bathroom as well as looking after a baby that wont stay in one place
sorry rant over lol

 

[Minxy]

Why would you have to give up work honey? Would/could your family not continue to help you out with childcare if you got your own place?

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

no they say if i move out it will be me and B and i would make that choice via moving out,
they really confuse me feels like there trying to get rid of me todasy but then say like well we wont help u out if u do move out

 

[Minxy]

Oh, then that is tough. I do agree that it wouldn't be much fun living on your own and not being able to work. Managing on benefits alone would be hard.

I lived alone and you can get lonely without a social network around you. I'm sure Braydon wouldn't want a sad mummy!

People who share homes have always and will always fight about the division of housework. It's a horrible part of living with others but if the benefits (company, help with B) outweigh it at the moment it might be worth sticking it out.

Hope it all works out. Besides, that sexy young billionaire with the mansion who wants to whisk you and Braydon away might just be around the corner!

 

[hearts81]

Awww Sarah hun it must be so hard for you. I couldn't imagine starting off with a new house etc at this time as the house prices/rent is so expensive at the moment. I'm just lucky that we bought our house years ago.

haven't got any advice for you really but I would seriously look into things like childcare help, working tax credits etc and see if you may be able to manage it. I know its a nightmare living with parents it would do you good to get away.

 

[Lauz_1601]

Sounds like ur parents dont really want you to leave. Obviously they love you and Im sure they would help you out with childcare if you did leave , They might just be saying that so they scare you into staying with them. Just a thought???????