Bev999
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Hi ladies, I need a little help with what to do!! I work shifts as a paramedic (half my shifts are 12 hour night shifts) which I am struggeling with (also my trousers dont fit on nights due to bloating!!).
Due to 3 previous MC, I get really worried about telling people. I have not told work yet as they would take me off road duties and put me on 9 till 5 light duties, but then everyone at work would know (about 100 people.)
My mum and 2 best friends think I should go on light duties now 10+5 but I really want to wait till 12 week scan (still waiting for a date). Also last week I had a bleed (scan all ok, but some seperation which doc could not explain) and am still bleeding a little now - not fresh blood any more.
I get so scared about telling people and then it all going wrong I dont know what to do. Well off for a night shift now!! I would apricate any views.
Thank you. xxx
Due to 3 previous MC, I get really worried about telling people. I have not told work yet as they would take me off road duties and put me on 9 till 5 light duties, but then everyone at work would know (about 100 people.)
My mum and 2 best friends think I should go on light duties now 10+5 but I really want to wait till 12 week scan (still waiting for a date). Also last week I had a bleed (scan all ok, but some seperation which doc could not explain) and am still bleeding a little now - not fresh blood any more.
I get so scared about telling people and then it all going wrong I dont know what to do. Well off for a night shift now!! I would apricate any views.
Thank you. xxx