My mam just popped up for tea and to watch the girls while I was at the GP . My bloody mother just suggested that lily might have"lung problems" as I dont let her cry enough to " stretch her lungs" and said she left her upstairs in her cot for a full half hour screaming until she fell asleep . My poor baby is sick ! she has underdeveloped lungs , has already almost died in her cot as she stopped breathing m so angry I could scream . When I went to check on her she had no monitors on her and the camera was switched off , ffs anything could have happened to her ! I know I need to talk to her about this bit as I am so angry right now I said nothing . To make matters worse I asked her to give Aoibheann some fruit for a snack and came back to find her muching on a plate of crisps and viscuits . She clearly has no respect for me ... aaaaaagh ! sorry for ranting but its better than murdering her .