I am going crazy.....

[amzhunny]

Help!!!!

Argh having an awful few days.....Amber is really awful whenever she isnt sleeping she is crying and not just crying but sometimes really screaming. Its driving me round the bend...i try absolutely everything and nothing works. Docs have checked her out and she is fine so i just dont know what to do.

OH just sits and looks at me he is useless when she is crying and i am so warn out!!

ARGHHHH

 

[Krystal]

aww hun I know its sooo exhausting when they are crying loads. Least doc said she's healthy. Have you tried taking her for a walk in fresh air? know not good this time of night but just during the day? Or bath time? anything to break up thos times when she's upset. I got a swing and he settled really well in that rather than crying all the time.

 

[amzhunny]

she is asleep now woo hoo break for me! She is getting a swing for xmas from family may ask to have it sooner anything will help.

Yeah taking her out does help but as soon as you get back and she is stll she starts blarting again lol

Just o frustrating when you just cant do anything else!

 

[Lola's Mummy]

Have you tried baby massage?

If Lola is crying and she doesn't need changing, feeding etc I massage her it really seems to help her calm down

 

[amzhunny]

good idea will try that tomorrow think she is out for the count now..!

 

[MissThing]

Aww, im sorry. I know it is so difficult when they just cry!
For us works: going to the fresh air (falls asleep immidiatley), dummy! (one of the best buys), getting him to his rocking chair (Fisher price Rainforest) or bathing.

Hope something of this helps

 

[Squiglet]

aww hun I know its sooo exhausting when they are crying loads. Least doc said she's healthy. Have you tried taking her for a walk in fresh air? know not good this time of night but just during the day? Or bath time? anything to break up thos times when she's upset. I got a swing and he settled really well in that rather than crying all the time.

I honestly think I would have killed Tia if it hadn't been for a swing...It was one of the best buys ever.... go get one now... !!! Also a sling... because Tia was just as grumpy and crying when we went out so I stopped using a pushchair and took her out in a sling.

Also... babies don't die if you leave them to cry... honestly... and you aren't being cruel... If they are clean, fed, cuddled, warm and still crying... leave them. Sounds mean... and I hated doing it with Tia... but it had to be done...

They do grow out of it.. Promise.. Usually when they are old enough to keep themselves amused with toys around 4 months... You aren't doing anything wrong... it is really hard when they really do nothing else but cry... and just remember that you are coping and lots of people can't even do that so that makes you a great mum

 

[amzhunny]

can u recommend any decent swings??

 

[Lola's Mummy]

http://www.toysrus.co.uk/Product.aspx/B ... ref=Search

I have this one. It uses a lot of batteries though

 

[suzy100]

can u recommend any decent swings??

i had the babydan one. it was brilliant......2 songs, volume control, loads of speed settings so you dont have to sit there rocking it, reclining seat.
maisy has just outgrown it and am selling it.
if you are interested, pm me