I have a wonderful husband who i adore but he is really struggling to get excited or feel that this baby coming is real. I can understand where he is coming from because I feel a bit the same way at the moment. I still have no bump whatsoever and haven't felt a flutter of movement yet. The doppler doesn't even seem to get him going. Does getting a bump make it more real for your partners? Also when did you get your bump? I can't wait t to start feeling more real about this and have something to share with my husband.