Hello!! I'm at the end of my tether and hoping for some words of wisdom!!! I have two little girls aged almost 4 and 16 months. When my second child was born she suffered very bad reflux and dairy intolerance and basically didn't sleep for the first 6 months. Even now she is still a bad sleeper. So lots of stress...resulting in me becoming ill from exhaustion. To top it all off the company my husband worked for closed down and he was left unemployed since April. He has been taking on various freelance work and working night shifts on weekends in a factory. He is also due to start a full time job in a few weeks. He is basically working round the clock and sometimes not even sleeping. I am left to do everything with the kids. To make matters worse he is doing the freelance work from home so having him sitting in the other room while I'm run off my feet with the kids. I understand that we need the money...but I'm getting so worn out and I have no family here to help me. I'm so confused about how I should view this to be honest....on the one hand I appreciate what he is doing, bringing money in, but I'm also getting infuriated with him because I feel we no longer have a family life anymore. Am I being ungrateful by feeling this way? It feels like by the end of it all there will be nothing of 'us' left....and yes he may have worked round the clock to bring money in...but surely there needs to be some balance? Any thoughts on this situation would be much appreciated! !