hubby is not well :(

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  1. melhoney

    melhoney Well-Known Member

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    I mean reaaaalllly not well and whats worse is we have no idea what he has. High temp for the past 2 days and swelling under the eyes. He has been to the docs but they dont know either :(
    Of course this means no bding any more i was quite frustrated when it started coz it was right when opks showed a stronger line. Bless him he let me "do the work" on him still after he saw my face. How selfish of me, i cant look at myself in the mirror!! Right now he is boiling, shivering, and he is usually NEVER ill:(
    He has his 1st SA on Saturday, i dont think there is much need of him goung is there? Poor thing, he wont be able to di it i think, and the results probably wont be much accurate, right??
    i dont wamt him to go through the trouble for nothing, coz i know he is the sort of person who will try...his great sense of responsibility...

    Sorry a long post for not much purpose, but i am now gettjng worried and i cant say that to him!!

    Mel x
     
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  2. CARNAT22

    CARNAT22 Well-Known Member

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    Oh sorry sweetie - my OH has just come down with man flu and I have told him he had better get well quickly !!!!

    I'm sure we've both been ill and still done it as I was due to Ov :shock:

    (and it didn't make any difference!)

    If he is really poorly, there isn't much you can do though

    xxxxxxxxxxx
     
  3. netty

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    my oh had similar to this, is he sensitive to light? if so i would suggest a trip to a&e could be something viral, sounds worse than flu :-(

    you could have fried an egg on my ohs skin but he said he was cold!
     
  4. melhoney

    melhoney Well-Known Member

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    Thanks for your responses. Its getting worse his face is niw getting puffy. Still high temp. Most blood tests are back and are fine. His white cells a bit on the high side, so there is a sort of infection, but dica cant find what! :shock:

    Would you agree with me thar there is no point for him ti do his SA? His results could be too liw because of a week of hugh temp and the infection?

    What do you suggest?

    Thanks
     
  5. CARNAT22

    CARNAT22 Well-Known Member

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    I'd leave the SA until he is a bit better

    xxxxxxx
     
  6. melhoney

    melhoney Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Carnat. yes, I thought it made more sense... and poor thing, I don't eve think he can bear the exercise at the moment! he had a terrible night, woke up many times, all wet, had to chnage T-shirt and at 4am, paracetamol had ceased having any effect, his body was achy everywhere!
    I have NEVER seen him like that! !!!:shock:

    :sick:

    Will postpone the appointment.

    Ta!
     

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