Littlesammy
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Hi ladies, I need a bit of advice...
I've got my 12 week scan on Thursday and if everything goes ok we we're planning on telling the family after. However there are 2 people in my family with fertility problems, one found out last year that she can't have children and the other is undergoing IVF treatment. So having children is a bit of a sensitive subject in our family!
We're not a particularly close family and we don't normally just call each other for a chat. So I'm wondering whats the best way to tell them about my pregnancy. My OH says I should just post an update on Facebook and let them see that way. I think that may be ok for telling some people but is a little insensitive to my family. I also don't want to come across like I'm rubbing it in their face though, which OH thinks might happen if I call them. Don't want it to. One across like, "I don't normally call you but I'm calling to say I'm pregnant", if you know what I mean! The other thing I could do is get my mum to tell them, but again I'm not sure if that's a bit of a cop out.
What do you ladies think, should I call and tell them or let them find out from Facebook or other family members?
Thanks xx
I've got my 12 week scan on Thursday and if everything goes ok we we're planning on telling the family after. However there are 2 people in my family with fertility problems, one found out last year that she can't have children and the other is undergoing IVF treatment. So having children is a bit of a sensitive subject in our family!
We're not a particularly close family and we don't normally just call each other for a chat. So I'm wondering whats the best way to tell them about my pregnancy. My OH says I should just post an update on Facebook and let them see that way. I think that may be ok for telling some people but is a little insensitive to my family. I also don't want to come across like I'm rubbing it in their face though, which OH thinks might happen if I call them. Don't want it to. One across like, "I don't normally call you but I'm calling to say I'm pregnant", if you know what I mean! The other thing I could do is get my mum to tell them, but again I'm not sure if that's a bit of a cop out.
What do you ladies think, should I call and tell them or let them find out from Facebook or other family members?
Thanks xx