Hi! Was wondering if you all bought brand new or second hand for most of your items. I bought most of them second hand apart from the cot bed and car seat which will be brand new but anything like moses basket, push chair, baby carrier are second hand. I have some colleagues who will give me stuff like baby grows and a bath but my boyfriend is moaning saying I do not give any identity to the baby, he wants everything brand new. Thing is, he does not work and my salary cannot cover the rent, car, loan and brand new stuff for baby. So please, tell me i am not the only one to but second hand stuff because I think he wants me to feel guilty about this!!! Thanks.