I miscarried at 12 weeks in September 2007. Both myself and my partner were obviously heartbroken. He only had 2 days off work with me as he was doing a placement. Since he went back to work I have felt so alone. I went back to work at the beginning of October after having 2 weeks off. I have a relatively close family but only one of them has actually asked me how I am, it seems no one wants to know how I'm feeling or even cares. My partner won't even talk about it now and it feels like he's blaming me. When I went to the hospital I was given the option of going home and letting everything go naturally or booking in to have a D & C. I decided to do everything at home and started losing the day after. I do feel for my partner as he saw more that day than any man should ever have to see. I lost so much blood I had to be admitted to hospital as I kept passing out. We decided after the miscarriage that we would try again and haven't been using contraception since. I have a son from my marriage and he has 3 kids from his marriage & relationship. Sometimes when I'm driving home or if I am on my own I wonder if I could have done anything different. I don't smoke or drink and my partner is wonderful. It was the worse thing I have ever had to go through as it is for any woman. I cry myself to sleep every night, I am greatful for my son but feel redundant now he has started school. Four months down the line I'm not pregnant and have been gutted every month since when I have started my period. Although I try not to show it so as not to upset anyone. I think we actually stopped trying to get pregnant in November because we moved and it was very stressful. My best friend is pregnant and is due in 10 weeks I was due a couple of weeks after her, so I have been trying to help her as best as I can as it is her and her partner's first child. Am I putting too much pressure on myself to get pregnant again so soon? Could someone advise me on how long it should take to get pregnant again.