After giving birth about a year ago, I and my husband have not gone out on a date alone. We are very focused on making sure our finances can cover our expenses and taking care of our kids and businesses. We rarely had time to be alone. When it's time to go to bed, we are always both so tired so we rarely do something intimate together. I'm worried that I am failing on my duties to him as a wife. I'm not really sure how to initiate because it's been so long. Do you have any advice for me?