top tip for other shy mums- try to make sure you go every week, and be regular to a day eg I go wed and friday to the same one, as different mums to different groups, otherwise it can feel like your startign again each week if your not regular. I sound a bit like a stalker, but after 4 kids and getting them off to school with correct clubs instruments homework etc in the morning- I have a terrible memory for names!, there is just no more room up there!! I feel silly keep asking the same , whats your name question each week!!, so I will take two names eg mum and baby and try to remember them , and once on way home, out a memo on my phone, called friday group, I add to this each week, with maybee a small description to help me remember which one they are, eg skinney ginger mum with blonde boy - and so before I turn up the next week I have a quick peek and remind myself of a few names, really good to be able to say hello Sofia etc , breaks the ice! (slowly info is stickuing now as I know them more!