Hey everyone, I'm new to the forum. I'm a 20 year old dad-to-be.
My girlfriend is 10 weeks pregnant, I know her hormones are all over the place right now but all we've been doing is arguing lately, we don't really make much conversation anymore when we're together because we're worried it'll turn into an arguement.
I spent time and wrote her a letter one day to tell her how I felt and that I'd be there no matter what, she read it and had nothing to say about it. In her words "I don't want to talk about your bloody letter!". As she's pregnant, i do alot for her, I don't want her over-doing things and i try and do as much as i can for her, but i get no appreciation, she says 'thank you' and 'love you' but i get that tone that suggests she only says it because she thinks it's what I want to hear.
We havn't got intimate for months which is understandable, I know she's probably not feeling very attractive at the moment but even if I try to give her so much as a hug or kiss, she's very reluctnant. She doesn't really like showing her emotions or telling me how she really feels. She doesn't seem very caring and can be quite insulting at times. I'm so confused, she used to be so loving and be so sweet, now its like she doesn't care for compliments or romantic gestures.
Is all this down to the hormones or do you think she may be falling out of love with me? I'm scared that things are just going to get worse and by the time we've had our baby she's not going to want me around. I miss that bond that we had when we first got together.
My girlfriend is 10 weeks pregnant, I know her hormones are all over the place right now but all we've been doing is arguing lately, we don't really make much conversation anymore when we're together because we're worried it'll turn into an arguement.
I spent time and wrote her a letter one day to tell her how I felt and that I'd be there no matter what, she read it and had nothing to say about it. In her words "I don't want to talk about your bloody letter!". As she's pregnant, i do alot for her, I don't want her over-doing things and i try and do as much as i can for her, but i get no appreciation, she says 'thank you' and 'love you' but i get that tone that suggests she only says it because she thinks it's what I want to hear.
We havn't got intimate for months which is understandable, I know she's probably not feeling very attractive at the moment but even if I try to give her so much as a hug or kiss, she's very reluctnant. She doesn't really like showing her emotions or telling me how she really feels. She doesn't seem very caring and can be quite insulting at times. I'm so confused, she used to be so loving and be so sweet, now its like she doesn't care for compliments or romantic gestures.
Is all this down to the hormones or do you think she may be falling out of love with me? I'm scared that things are just going to get worse and by the time we've had our baby she's not going to want me around. I miss that bond that we had when we first got together.