Levi89
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Well ladies just needing a wee rant -
Hubby is half Australian, my MIL and BIL live over there (just moved back three years ago) and to be honest its great with them being over there because I had to be 'nice' whenever I was around them and we didn't really get on. Now G and I are married, his family that are still here keep bringing up the idea of us moving over there... We were going to go for a year to see if we liked it but we fell pregnant - I mean we are about to have our first child, I need my mum's support because I don't have a scoobie how to do anything!
Even after trying to tell them I'm going to struggle to cope with motherhood here never mind in a whole new country with his mum (who isn't maternal either!) they are so persistant! Just because we are married I am now technically (once the paperwork is sent away) an Australian citizen. It makes me so mad!!
I'm just sick of the constant 'oh it'll be a better life' etc etc. Yeah maybe a better WAY of life but all our friends and family are here and to be honest that type of decision should be made between me and hubby! If G had mentioned it then I wouldn't have felt so protective but they won't listen to me!! ARGH!
Anyway sorry for a pretty pointless rant, but if I dont write it down in a 'safe' place then I think I will explode! xx
Hubby is half Australian, my MIL and BIL live over there (just moved back three years ago) and to be honest its great with them being over there because I had to be 'nice' whenever I was around them and we didn't really get on. Now G and I are married, his family that are still here keep bringing up the idea of us moving over there... We were going to go for a year to see if we liked it but we fell pregnant - I mean we are about to have our first child, I need my mum's support because I don't have a scoobie how to do anything!
Even after trying to tell them I'm going to struggle to cope with motherhood here never mind in a whole new country with his mum (who isn't maternal either!) they are so persistant! Just because we are married I am now technically (once the paperwork is sent away) an Australian citizen. It makes me so mad!!
I'm just sick of the constant 'oh it'll be a better life' etc etc. Yeah maybe a better WAY of life but all our friends and family are here and to be honest that type of decision should be made between me and hubby! If G had mentioned it then I wouldn't have felt so protective but they won't listen to me!! ARGH!
Anyway sorry for a pretty pointless rant, but if I dont write it down in a 'safe' place then I think I will explode! xx