Hello everyone. I'm Nikki, I'm 30 and expecting my first. The fella is delighted now he's over the immediate panic whereas I have gone the other way and, although still extremely delighted, I am feeling more of the 'reality check' feelings! So I thought I'd dive in here with people who are probably more experienced than me and less anxious all the time. I live with Fella of 8 years and two cats in the West Mids, UK. Both work full time (me and him, not the cats) and we are getting married in October.