his social life

[klam]

hey every1, was just wonderin how often does ur partners go out? wether its 2 football, 2 friends house or pub!
just 2 explain, ma OH plays football every sunday mornin, thursday nite n friday daytime and i dont mind really suppose im used 2 it but my friends and sum family seem 2 think its a bit much as we r expectin another. sumtimes i do feel like a single parent tho. he is very good with ur daughter, helps with housework and works full time. im wondering if ill maybe resent him or struggle wen our boy cums along 2. he also has nites out maybe 1 nite every few months as i cut this rite down (he was cumin home the nxt day)!! anyway - does most of ur men stay at home outwith workin hours 2 help with kids???

 

[scaredmum2be]

I havent got kids as yet well one on the way an me hubby used to go out quite often now but as ive moaned i hardly got to see him due to his hobby fish marines he used to get up at 7 in the morning an stay out until day until 11 at night. Now im getting usd to it but its bit hard when im pregnant an mc before so i panic when im in pain and he aint here with me incase of emurgancy.
His hobbys mate he goes out with rings nearly every day talking bout fish stuff aswell as wanting him to go to places but hubby sticks to his mate more, if his mate says want to go here an then to that place. on different days of the week it just takes the mick.
I also feel single alot an i end up wondering if he will bond with our baby when its born, to be honest it scares me as if it makes us drift apart then whats that say about the child involved.
He doesnt really bother with me as such when hes at home so somtimes i like it when he goes out but when or if it starts getting to the same point where hes off out all the time then it will annoy me cos he hasnt bothered round the house that needs doing or wanting to do things with me hed rather bog off out. but i keep quiet to avoid arguements. i no how you feel when you feel lonely an single parent x

 

[Mamafy]

Klam can I just offer a gentle reminder of part of our rules of the Forum

Posts made in TXT SPK (text speak)... are not permitted.

http://www.pregnancyforum.co.uk/announcement.php?f=18

Thank you

 

[Sam's Mum]

My OH plays lots of football too outside work - Monday and Wednesday nights, and Sunday mornings, and he occasionally has nights out too. He is a fantastic dad though, and I think it's important to still have time to ourselves to do things we enjoy - I've never though of it as an issue at all, as long as he does help out and spend time with the kids the rest of the time

 

[klam]

oops sorry for the text speech, thats a bad habbit!

everyone has a different opinion on this, and im up and down. sometimes i would just like a bath without ma little girl coming in and annoying me so i suppose thats wen i start to get annoyed that hes out. i know exactly how u feel scared mum 2 be. his friends txt everyday just wantin him to hang around and i feel he puts his friends first! i hope once ur man sees your little newborn he will not want to leave yous both. its like they dont seem to want to spend time with us if we live together! maybe i just moan a lot because i prefer not to go out to friends or anythin when i know he will be home! would rather just spend time with him. i have got to the same stage where i dont say anything to avoid arguements just cant be bothered as nothings changed after 7 years. sorry 2 hear about your misscarriage, fingers crossed for this little one! thanks sams mum its good to hear someone in the same situation who is happy. im just feeling lonely the now as he has added an extra football session a week. we are taking a break away this weekend with our daughter so hopefully that will calm me down haha xxx

 

[scaredmum2be]

i tried that when we went to black pool but he cudnt stop recieving texts from his mate an its his fone so i couldnt say could you please turn it off lol. And he was always banging on about his fish stuff lol.

I hope so when little one is born he said it would be different but i dont bank on things what he says even though i should but if i did i would feel let down so instead of arguing i stay quiet lol.

I hope your other half helps you more and both of our partners want to stay in with us, will soon have to see in 5 months. I dont mind him going out because its his hobby an i sometimes think if i had a hobby i might be alright but i tend to miss his company lol. xx