Hi minikins. That was a quick reply, thankyou. I am getting a one parent benefit at the moment because whilt with him I was unable to claim other benefits as he was not entitled to public funds. So with him gone I will actually be better off. Thank you for understanding and you are right, I will be better off without him. I just have to wait now. He will probably go looking for another woman for somewhere to stay now, I know what hes like. It just makes me so angry, just to think that I actually thought he loved me, really i did. You take care minikins....i like that name, its cute. All my love Jacqui. x x