OK, so LO is now 12 weeks old. I am still fully bf and he is growing well Our stumbling block is sleep......apart from the odd occassion he just cannot self settle We have tried lots of different things including: -baths -reading to him -lullaby cd -white noise cd -nature noise cd -swing seat -light projector -item of mine in cot -staying with him once he's in the cot and trying to reassure him without picking him up -swaddling He just can't seem to take himself off......even when we get close he will wake himself up and cry until we pick him up and then he is in a right state and takes ages to calm him down- all the time he is getting more and more over tired The difficult thing is that once he is down to sleep he can usually take a decent nap 45mins-1hr 30mins or even longer and at night he can go 5-7 hours after last feed then 3-4hours again without too much issue. It's the daytime naps that are soooo tough. I am really starting to struggle with it because I know that if I have to keep rocking him off then he will never be able to do it himself but on the other hand he NEEDS to sleep, he is such a happy baby when he has had a good nap.......how can I make things better without having to leave him to cry it out or leave him knackered from lack of sleep time?! I have read a lot about LO's not sleeping at night or not getting a decent length of nap but not so much the not being able to settle themselves.......are we alone? Does anyone else's baby's do this? Do we just need to persist with the things we are trying and hope that he will get it in time or do we need to try something else? Advice would really be appreciated! Thank you!