help..mini freak out :(

[Jamie]

hey everyone

my 3 year old, the little tinker, was emptying her entire toy box so I told her not to get *everything* out and started putting some things back...she stormed off upstairs in a strop, and when I went up I found she'd ripped her plant apart and emptied the soil all over her bedroom floor! It was one of those ones they do at pre-school in a plastic cup, and it was on her windowsill because thats where we get the most sun!

anyway I got mad at her for a minute, stomped downstairs for the hoover and then back up, and then just ended up in heaps of tears with her!! do you think I could have hurt the baby by getting stressed like that?

 

[madam bully]

I think the baby will be perfectly fine, it's probably the baby hormones that have made you all upset in the first place!

Have a few minutes to yourself and then have a big cuddle with your daughter

Everyone has these moments when they are pregnant, I have had loads!! I lost my notepad at work and went completly mental for a moment At least you were in the privacy of your own home!!

 

[FeeFee]

Yep i was at the same stage in weeks as you when i flipped at DH in the car for NO reason whats so ever, i dont think it does bubbs any harm just maybe gets them used to loud noises lol

 

[Jamie]

thank you its good to hear that others flip out as well hehe
xxxxx

 

[Snuggle]

I have been the queen of flipping out

I burst into tears because my DH kept turning my dogs ears inside out just to annoy me Another time, I had a screaming session because the woman in the chip shop had forgotten to give me a tub of beans and I REALLY wanted them!

 

[Tangerinedream]

Ive been like this too hun, i think i got mad because OH was throwing things that could be recycled in the normal bin (when we first got out second bin). I was shouting at him and at the time was thinking why the hell am i shouting about this, its nothing. Poor OH. You cannot maintain a 100% stress free pregnancy. I had the same worries but i have had my stressful moments. My Grandad recently died and i was worried about upsetting LO. Someone said its better to feel a multitude of emotions now so when LO faces different situations in life these emotions are not completely alien to them.

 

[Jamie]

snuggle bless you that made me laugh
thank you so much ladies I don't know what I'd do without this forum!!