Morning! Who was it that posted about getting up early?! I've been 5:50 on the dot all week.. Anyway, this is a bit of a strange one but I have a beautiful 4 year old (Poppy) who is very snuggly and likes to be carried all the time. Now she's not teeny (20kg) and i'm worried about lifting her. I know this sounds awful (I feel like a terrible mother even asking..) What exactly constitutes heavy lifting in early preg? I had anorexia as a teenager and am so conscious of hurting her feelings with comments like "you're too heavy now" as these are the kind of comments that manifested into my illness.. How do I tactfully tell my daughter I can't carry her anymore without her resenting the pregnancy?!