He Thinks She Hates Him!

[LisaJ1986]

Just recently whenever i hand Angel over to her dad she just screams and leans out to be taken back.
To start with i was thinking it's just coincidence with her just waking and it being tea time, or her waking as he takes her off me to put her in bed. But sometimes i don't know what it is.
It has started since his dad made her cry. I'm wondering if it's coz they're so alike. We took her round his dad's yesterday and she wouldn't go to him. But she'll go to pretty much anyone else. I thought maybe it was men but she's fine with "BIL".
Last night she was just screaming. I wanted to use the bathroom and OH was trying to calm her. He just said "She hates me"
She is fine with him sometimes. She will proper giggle with him and is so good with him, then others she will only settle with me.
Is this just a phase?

 

[Bee]

Its probably a phase. OH thinks this too with Finlay as he will prefer me half the time.

Hopefully she'll be better soon but make sure OH doesn't use it as a reason not to do things with her as it could just isolate him from her iykwim

 

[littlepip]

Ryan hasnt seen his dad in 5 months s not sure but when my mum came over to babysit for a couple of hours last week (which was the first time anyones had him in months) he knew something was going on and i gave him to my mum and he was crying so staring at me, so i took him back and he was fine. Hopefully its just a phase!

 

[bonny]

Maby its because your her main carer? If you OH is working all day and you have dd then she will be use to how you do things for her. I know Mizzy screems at everyone but me, because im really the only person other than my other 2 that does anything with/for her.