having another one?

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  1. starstruck2011

    starstruck2011 Well-Known Member

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    hi all


    im almost like a newbie here, i remembered my old log ins so forgive my ignorance!

    LO is 1 yr old next week and im flitting and fluting about whether to have another.
    im 30 partners 38
    we have the one LO and he has 9 yr old from previous relationship.

    hes happy to stay where we are but im just not sure.

    i want to give my girl everything, be there for her, treat her like my little princess, but what if i had another girl!? i just cant seem to answer that question.

    how do mums have 2 and share the love?
    im finding it so difficult and i have to decide quick as partner doesnt want one after 40 yrs old.

    thanks in advance.

    (i was an only child!)
     
  2. Squeakz

    Squeakz Well-Known Member

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    The love disnt split in two you just get more :)
     
  3. Becky1

    Becky1 Well-Known Member

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    I was an only child and I definitely want two - you will have more love and love them both equally and they will love each other too.

    I found as a child being an only one could be quite lonely at times.
     
  4. BevG

    BevG Well-Known Member

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    love is limitless, theres no competition it can be shared and isnt halved. im gonna have DD2 in sept and i know i will love them both equally and will find time and space to give them both the attention and love they need and deserve :)
     
  5. Mrs N

    Mrs N Well-Known Member

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    I love my girls already so can't imagine that I will love them any differently than I do my son!
    Xxx
     

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