Cutting a long story short my OH is a workaholic and won't admit it. I know it isn't always a bad thing and i shouldnt moan but it's really starting to get to me and I'm worrying what he's going to be like once baby is here as I really really don't want to be left on my own and have to cope with it all without him . Tonight he was meant to be at work but it has been cancelled due to weather conditions. Within seconds of being told this and putting the phone down, he had already starting ringing someone else and arranging to do some work for them instead. We don't often get to spend a lot of time with each other anymore and it just upset me that he goes on about spending time just us together before LO arrives, knowing full well that he doesn't have to be out of the house till 9 tomorrow morning instead of the usual 4/5 am and that he still passed up the opportunity for us to have a quiet night in to go out and work instead. I've asked him what days he's working for his usual boss this week and it's every day and night till Thursday but he then went on about how he's rung someone else up and is arranging to work Christmas eve. I then asked what he's working after Christmas and same again he plans to work from boxing day up until the new year and from then until my due date. We still need to go and get his little boy his christmas presents this week but now it's being left to me to go alone as he's working :/. He's told the guy he does most of his work for that once LO is here that he will be taking a couple of weeks off work. He's then turned round to me and said that he's arranged or planning to arrange some days working in between this two week period for some other people he knows. I wouldn't mind if we were completely on our arse skint but we aren't. It just seems like recently he's got so greedy when it comes to money that he's forgetting what actually matters in life :'(.