OK, so Ethan is nearly 14 weeks now and I still don't feel like we have a set routine to follow......is this 'normal'? I am bf and therefore feed on demand. He goes about 3 hours between feeds and longer at night (3-5 hours). At the moment he is struggling with naps in the day (hv thought this could be due to reflux so we are now on gaviscon for that) and cannot get him to sleep very easily. So each day he doesn't nap at the same times.....it all depends on how quickly I can get him off when I see that he is tired (anywhere from 10mins to an hour!). Once he is a sleep it's not always predicatable how long the nap will be either. The only predictable things are that he will want a nap anytime from 45mins to 1hr 30mins after he wakes in the morning and that he feeds roughly 3 hourly. Everything else I can't predict, I just have to go with the flow. In the evening we are trying to bath him every night (he isn't keen on bathing so we are trying to get him more relaxed and used to it- he's improving gradually) and feed him to help him off to sleep. I'm a first time mum and I feel like I should have a routine for him as other people seem to have routines for their babies by this age, but how can I make a routine when everything is so variable?! Anyone else not have a predictable routine? Am I expecting too much at this stage?.......Do u thinik once he can get to sleep easier his nap times will become more regular and predictable? Advice would be appreciated!