okay... i had an ectopic in feb. and then started patch beginning of march. i didn't care for the patch and all the side effects so on the 4th week i took it off and had my period. i never put it back on so i had break through bleeding april 1st. all of april i had pregnancy symptoms but all the test were negative. on april 30 i had started what i think was my period it was really lite and on/off for about 4 days. which i am usually a 6-7 days, medium - heavy girl. Then all of May i had all the pregnancy symptoms: nausead every day all day, leg cramps, headaches, lower abdominal cramping, bloated, tired, dizzy, food cravings, i noticed i am going to the restroom alot more. Well, i am guessing but if you go by the date of my last period april 30 then i am around 8 days late. this past weekend i have had these really bad cramps where i felt like i couldn't stand, i have been craving ice cream which i usually hate and pickles and olives. i took a test saturday and it was negative. i went to the doctors today and she only used her fingers and pressed on my stomach. said everything felt fine but next monday they are going to do a pelvic exam. HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE??? HOW LONG DID IT TAKE YOU TO SHOW UP? ANY ADVISE WOULD HELP. THANK YOU.