i gave birth 3 weeks ago. i thought i was healing quite well but im still in so much pain when i wee. it really stings still. i was wondering is this normal? i tore right next to my urethra so i know why it was stinging at the start but it just doesnt seem to be easing up. also i keep bleeding like iv just cut myself. everytime i asked the midwife to check me she said there was nothing wrong but i cant help think i have caught an infection. everytime i go toilet im really careful and take a bowl of water and bathe myself afterwards. has anyone else experienced this?