Hello
I am quite a shy person so it's quite hard to reach out to people. I have wanted to get involved with this type of thread for a while but that means having to admit that I need to be on here. I had my son when I was 19. I've ttc again since I was 23 on and off (I'm now 33). My exboyfriend was a heavy marijuana user and I was with him during my twenties. I kind of assumed that his drug use was the reason I didn't fall again....I eventually seen the light, left him and met a lovely man whom I married.
We have been actively trying for 5 months to conceive but nothing. The last 12 months I haven't used contraception hoping that I'd just naturally catch. I feel very alone as my friends have either multiple children or none and I seem to fall somewhere in between...
I'm scared of going to the doctors because I don't want to face this. I've never told anyone this before but it's time for me to do something other than worry. They say that most couples conceive within 12 months and I'm confused. If I add up (I have no idea) the cycles without contraception over the last ten years then it'd easily surpass 12 months....should I be worried or should I dismiss my previous attempts due to the exs drug use?
I'm so sorry to rant. This seems a lovely forum and I'd really like to be part of it.
Xx
I am quite a shy person so it's quite hard to reach out to people. I have wanted to get involved with this type of thread for a while but that means having to admit that I need to be on here. I had my son when I was 19. I've ttc again since I was 23 on and off (I'm now 33). My exboyfriend was a heavy marijuana user and I was with him during my twenties. I kind of assumed that his drug use was the reason I didn't fall again....I eventually seen the light, left him and met a lovely man whom I married.
We have been actively trying for 5 months to conceive but nothing. The last 12 months I haven't used contraception hoping that I'd just naturally catch. I feel very alone as my friends have either multiple children or none and I seem to fall somewhere in between...
I'm scared of going to the doctors because I don't want to face this. I've never told anyone this before but it's time for me to do something other than worry. They say that most couples conceive within 12 months and I'm confused. If I add up (I have no idea) the cycles without contraception over the last ten years then it'd easily surpass 12 months....should I be worried or should I dismiss my previous attempts due to the exs drug use?
I'm so sorry to rant. This seems a lovely forum and I'd really like to be part of it.
Xx